2012年5月9日水曜日

I ♥ LADY GAY GAY

As it is obvious to everyone's eye, there are millions of Little Monsters, serving my Mother Monster worldwide. That's to say, my Mother Monster is capable of influencing millions of people in the world, including me. Such "powerful" figure, if misuses his or her power, for instance, influencing his or her followers to commit immoral acts, would be a definite harm for the society. In turn, Mother Monster utilizes her "power" to support unfortunate individuals. For instance, natural disasters like earthquake, HIV and AIDS support, and others, need not be stated because they are trivial. In particular, my Mother Monster's indestructible status within the homosexual community greatly attracted my interest of examining the "power" my Mother Monster has.

My Mother Monster, from her public speeches, responses to media questions, and interviews, had never attempted to avoid stating her positive and thankful attitude on homosexuality. Even from her compositions, "Poker Face" and "Alejandro", promoted the admiration of the homosexual community. Many places in the world undervalue the rights homosexual and bisexual community deserve long time ago. By utilizing her "power" in a positive way, my Mother Monster successfully made the LGBT community gaining large amount of social awareness, and should not be discriminated from the society.

In my point of view, homosexuals are not actually what people think they are; that's to say, our society, because of its discriminative attitude towards homosexuals, greatly undervalue the rights and voices of homosexuals. Everyone, believe it or not, should have both a female and a male side of their personality. From Sexual Psychology literature, the physical gender should be treated separately from their psychological gender. One can have a male body, but with a psychological gender of female, or even a blend of both gender in the psychological aspect if one decides to. However, due to social roles and norms, one is often influenced to converge their psychological gender with their physical gender. As a homosexual and bisexual advocate, my Mother Monster was able to disregard the social norms, and admitted that, she was a lesbian during the BTW Ball. Whether or not my Mother Monster was answering this question with the peripheral route due to her high cognitive load and stress caused by depressive events, the simple courage to accept such question and admitting it without hesitation deserves everyone's admiration, again, including me as a Little Monster not a while ago.

At the end, one would ask, why is this matter important for me? There is a typical answer and an authentic answer to this question. The typical answer, obviously, it is because everyone in this world is equal and each of them deserves their rights! I wouldn't use the above answer because it is over-altruistic doesn't completely justify one's basic attitude, the selfishness.

The authentic answer to the above question is able to incorporate the selfishness, in which it would be more authentic. Such that, the concern of homosexual and bisexual community is important because, one would never know when, where, with what influence, that he or she will have their psychological gender tilted to the other side, or resulting as a balance between both sides. If it actually happened on some day in the future, no one would be regretful and feel shameful of violating the stubborn social norms and enjoy their social and sexual life as an ordinary individual would, yet with a brand new domain of experiences.

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